How to Make Friends in Bilbao: A Practical Guide for Brazilians in Spain

Moving to Spain is a huge step, but after sorting out the initial paperwork, almost every expatriate faces a common challenge: how to put down roots and build a network of friends? Bilbao, with its Basque charm and vibrant life, offers great opportunities, as long as you know where to look.

Here at Brasileiros na Espanha, we understand that socializing in a different culture can be daunting. That's why I prepared this guide based on what really works here.

Where to Meet People (and Avoid Loneliness)

In Bilbao, the international community is active, but the secret to lasting friendships is getting out of your "bubble." One of the most effective ways is through language exchange groups. Platforms like Reddit (r/Bilbao) often list meetups where locals and foreigners gather to practice Spanish and English. It's a relaxed environment where no one judges your accent.

If you prefer something more structured, platforms such as Amigos Bilbao or MobiFriends are networks focused on connecting people in the city. They work well for finding folks who share similar interests, whether it’s playing sports, visiting a museum, or just having a txikito (a small glass of wine, very common here).

The Basque Culture and Necessary Patience

An important point about Bilbao: Basque culture has its peculiarities. Many locals have their friend groups formed since childhood or college days. This doesn’t mean they are closed off; it just means it might take longer to form a deep bond.

If you're studying in Bizkaia, a valuable tip is to get closer to classmates who live in the province. Avoid focusing only on people who study here but return to cities like Donostia (San Sebastián) every weekend; living in the city allows for more spontaneous and frequent plans, which are key to turning acquaintances into friends.

Participate in Real-Life Activities

The best way to integrate is by participating in group activities. Getting involved with sports clubs, volunteering, or attending cultural festivals are excellent entry points.

If you enjoy art, consider spending more time around the Bilbao Guggenheim Museum area. Visiting it not only puts you in touch with the city's cultural scene but also serves as a natural meeting point for residents and visitors alike.

Guggenheim Bilbao Museum Avenida Abandoibarra, 2, Bilbao, Vizcaya.

Practical Tips for Social Success

Know the Etiquette: Understanding Spanish social norms helps avoid faux pas and shows respect for local culture. The tradition of "dessert" (chatting after meals) is taken seriously here.
Be Proactive: Don’t wait for others to invite you. If you meet someone interesting at a language exchange, suggest a coffee or a visit to a tourist spot over the weekend.
Use Reddit: The r/Bilbao forum is an excellent tool. Don't be shy about posting that you're new in town and looking for people with common interests—often, other foreigners or locals are in exactly the same situation as you.

Remember: building a social circle takes time. Don’t rush it. What’s important is to keep an open mind and participate in activities you genuinely enjoy. Soon enough, familiar faces will start appearing.